NO HOMO

When grappling with the question of how to frame a discussion about the curious construction of masculinity within hip-hop culture, two phrases echoed in my mind. Two epithets, really, existing in two different moments in hip-hop history that managed (if only in my mind) to resonate and dialogue with one another.

The first, I owe to the lyrical genius of Snoop Doggy Dog. I’d pin it down to the mid 90’s when Snoop was to Dr Dre what Eminem is now to Dr Dre. The phrase is: “Bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks”. I couldn’t have been older than 13 years old when that lyrical masterpiece hit the airwaves, but I can still remember the rhythm of the words played in a constant loop in the tape deck of the historical moment. Bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks.

The second is a more recent utterance. It wasn’t as singularly articulated in a stand-out radio single, but nonetheless emblematic of a pervasive sentiment in hip-hop culture. I’d attribute it to Cam’ron circa 2004. The phrase is “no homo”.

It’s a disclaimer meaning nothing homosexual or homoerotic is intended by the following or aforementioned phrase.

Examples:
— biggie’s flow is so hot, I could listen to him spit all night – no homo.
— my crew is ride or die. I would do anything for them – no homo.

The phrase has this uncanny duality. On one hand, it serves as a prohibition. Through sheer repetition, it emphasizes that not only are homos emphatically “not allowed” in the physical or discursive space, but even the mere notion that one might interpret an happenstance word pairing as some queer pun or gay double-entendre must be acknowledged and cancelled. On the other hand, it forces all present to return to what’s been said and to draw upon their lexicon of homoeroticism and gay sex acts just so they can understand why the speaker has invoked the phrase in the first place. On one hand, the term protests the existence and the trace of homosexuality. On the other, it makes homoerotics a mainstay in the playful banter of otherwise straight men and women.

No homo made me think. What is it about the way in which masculinity is being constructed and replicated within hip-hop culture that makes homosexuality and homoeroticsm so repulsive, yet alluring? Why have the sissy, the fag, bitch-ass-nigga and the homo been such indispensable icons in hip-hop culture? And, more importantly, where do these images appear most frequently?

Is it the case that rappers consistently speak out about homosexuality, itself, or is there more going on? Is there a broader campaign against bitch-ness and bitch-like qualities? Why is it that in a rap battle, the most potent jabs at one’s opponent are lines that feminize him or call his masculinity into question? What is so dangerous or repulsive or frightening about the effeminate male, and why is it problematic to use femininity as a proxy for sexuality?

Does hip-hop have a problem with women? The popularity of the line “Bitches ain’t shit but hoes and tricks” suggests that the answer might be yes. But what do we make of the fact that another of the highest insults in a rap battle or a game of the dozens is an insult to one’s mother? How can the culture condition hip-hoppers to protect and promote the character of their mother in one breath, but normalize the utter degradation of all females in the next?

I thought a discussion about the curious construction of masculinity would aid us in addressing these questions. More specifically, I thought that an interrogation of the value of masculinity within a patriarchal society might help us identify the ways in which misogyny and homophobia are connected to one another, or how they might be thought to be two sides of the same coin.

I am hopeful that the cultural space of Hip-Hop might serve as a fruitful place to perform an intersectional analysis of race, gender and sexuality that moves us toward more holistic, inclusive ways to mobilize against misogyny and homophobia, and the institutions that support it.


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in our heads about hair

black women and hair:

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Other side of the fence

Black femininity is the perception of the woman being true to herself, whatever that truth is.  As I see femininity I don’t know whether the difference in what we see is femininity or characteristics of the individual.  There are plenty of black and white women that share what I would consider feminine traits while there approach to expression of femininity is different.  I think that the ideals placed on that person positive or negative shape the expression of femininity.  The feminine portrayal is a strong yet sensitive and understanding woman.  I don’t know that I have met women that differ much from that (overly simplified) “mold”.  Variations on that expression differ according to experience.  

Black masculinity at least in contemporary culture is a simple, strength at all cost.  I can’t help but feel as though this too is conserved across the male white and black persona.  The difference again is in the means of expression.  Men are allowed to express themselves within the framework of norms.  Most of the times these “boundaries” of how you express yourself rely on the direct interaction with the society or culture you live in.  

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Taye Diggs on his Dark Skin

Taye Diggs aka “sexual chocolate” says that he did not accept his skin color until he saw model Tyson Beckford’s rise to fame. The actor/author says that he did not think he was good looking at first because he had a complex about his skin color:

“When I got into high school I started to hear, just from the black community, everybody is more attracted to the light skin girls and the light skin dudes with the light eyes,” he said in an interview with MyBrownBaby.com.

“And from within the race the light skin black people and lighter brown people would make fun of the darker people. So then it was a completely different kind of struggle.”

“And then funnily enough it was when dark skinned men, and this was just from my perspective, there seemed to be a shift where all of a sudden we saw Denzel Washington, Wesley Snipes, Tyson Beckford. I’m still trying to figure out how this came to be. For me, when I saw Tyson Beckford hailed as this beautiful man by all people, that caused a shift in my being,” he added.”

Taye who is now a father of a 2 year-old bi-racial son recently published his children’s book Chocolate Me, which encourages youngsters to accept who they are.

What do you think of Taye’s comments? Did you know that black men struggle with this issue, and does this factor into the women that they date?

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I think femininity & masculinity are purely constructs of social norms and cultures… These ideas have evolved over thousands of years, shaped once by religion and now by the media.

I think in today’s society, humans need to learn how to respect one another and themselves. At the end of the day life is about living and it is about being happy in your life. I believe if you are truely happy inside and what you do in your life doesn’t negatively affect others, then what you do is your choice and ok with me.

Take for example, sex. The age old, if a woman sleeps around she is a slut, if a man sleeps around he is cool. What is monogony? What is sex? —-again just like femininity and masculinity, they are constructs of religion and social norms. On a personal level I prefer monogony and sharing a life with one other. But what my friend does or any one else does is not my place to criticize. Who are we to judge another person by their actions just because somewhere at some point somebody has determined its ‘not right’/’not normal’…

So to Feminimity… If a woman wants to be a stay at home mother, where her husband is a bread winner, and she does all the chores, and she enjoys it and is happy in her life, good for her. Same goes for the woman who becomes a CEO, has a nanny, hardly sees her adopted child, and has a string of gigolos in her address book… as long as she is happy, and shes not hurting anyone…

And for masculinity, if you wish to be a man who never shows his emotions and lives life with an aggressive outlook—-well, that is your choice and your life…

People need to ask themselves if they are happy. They should forget about religion, forget about tradition, and think about this present moment in time. Strive for goals, strive for happiness and fuck the rest of it!! We are all on this earth together and one day we will cease to exist, if you can live life with an element of fulfilment, and be able to positively affect other peoples lives in the mean time, then you’ve lived a good life in my book!


I hope this makes sense?!

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